Hello. I can be light hearted, tender, self assured, vulnerable, serious, and funny, all depending on the situation. I can be engaged in deeply insightful conversations or just being silly and laugh. I find simplicity and humility very elegant. I have had my share of drama in my life in the past. I have learned from my mistakes of wasting time on things that don't matter. I now focus on what matters, and try not to take the basic daily routines of life for granted. Something as simple as watching the ocean and flowers in Laguna can be profound if one has the right state of mind. I guess what I am trying to say is that I hope to find a life partner who can maintain a grateful attitude that having found each other is a blessing in itself. Thus, enjoy the moment and be present with each other, e.g., cooking together and sharing a meal together can be fun if one remembers to appreciate the companionship. As much as I like romance, I think that balancing it with substance is important.